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Monday, 6 October 2025

Top Five Favourites from The Life of a Showgirl by Taylor Swift

October 06, 2025 0 Comments



The Life of a Showgirl might be a LOT of things, but the life of a swiftie is never dull.


As a Bengali, I was already in a festive mood with Durga Puja shenanigans right before the album release. But I would not deny the fact that I was more excited for the album than I was for Durga Puja this year.


First of all, when the tracks were declared and the fifth track of the album stared at me, I could almost hear it say, “It’s me. Hi! I’m the problem, it’s me.”


Taylor Swift admitted to placing her most “vulnerable, personal, honest, emotional” song as Track 5 on her albums in 2019 when the fans spotted that pattern. Of course, I was eagerly waiting to be wrecked by a song. Again.


In India, the album was released at 9:30 in the morning and I only got out of bed after listening to all the songs. With TLOAS being the shortest TS album till date, it took me just an hour to go through them all (yes, I might’ve listened to a few of them multiple times). I loved some songs immediately and others might’ve taken some time to gel with. After that 31-songs double album which was heavier than expected, I was relieved that The Life of a Showgirl is full of upbeat and lighter songs (except maybe two).


This time, I did not listen to the album in the order TS wanted us to. I went rogue and hit play on Eldest Daughter first. And somehow each song led me to the next one either through the lyrics or by the essence. It was almost like following an invisible string. It became a very personal experience and now I’m ready to share my top five favourites from the album.


1. Eldest Daughter

Hand on my heart, I did not expect to cry. Yes, I was expecting a hard-hitting song, but to be honest, the lyrics are not that sharp. They don’t cut you the way some songs on The Tortured Poets Department, or Midnights, or folklore do. And yet, I was sobbing to the song because it felt like someone could see right through me without having to explain anything. Of course, she captures the weight of being an eldest daughter in the song, but then I started to question why she included this in an album which is supposedly about the life of a showgirl. And I knew the answer even before I could utter that question out loud. Every eldest daughter is a showgirl in a sense only we can understand.
Favourite lines:
“When you found me, I said I was busy
That was a lie
I have been afflicted with a terminal uniqueness
I’ve been dying just trying to seem cool.”



2. Opalite

I loved how the song starts. That metaphor "eating out of trash" had me laughing out loud. I loved this song so much because of its chorus. It's also a quite positive spin on her song You're On Your Own, Kid from Midnights. I have been listening to this song on loop. It makes me shimmer and feel better almost instantly. In her radio interviews on the album release day, she has been saying that this is Travis's favourite track from the album. She revealed that Travis's birthstone is opal, and it's no longer a guess to figure out what the song is about. Nevertheless, this is what I love about art - you are free to interpret a song in your own way, and you can take the lyrics and fit them into whatever situation you want to relate them to.
Favourite lines:
"This is just
A temporary speedbump
But failures bring you freedom
And I can bring you love, love, love, love (love)
Don't you sweat it, baby, it's alright,
You were dancing through the lightning strikes,"


3. CANCELLED!

Taylor Swift has a habit of picking up popular phrases and terms and including them in her lyrics. Remember You Need To Calm Down? Well, so that's why I figured this song would be about the many times she had been cancelled or rather just an overall experience of being a popular person (especially women) who can never do everything right in the eyes of the audience. People will always find a reason to cancel you, no matter what you do. But when I listened to the song, I absolutely fell in love with it. Not just because of its peppy beats but because this song is so much about friendship. Being aware of the whole situation with Blake Lively (one of Taylor's best friends) and her legal battle with Justin Baldoni, I could not help but wonder if this song is about their friendship. For me, the song really spoke to me and made me realise how real friendships don't always need to be showcased in front of everyone.
Favourite lines:
"Welcome to my underworld where it gets quite dark
At least you know exactly who your friends are
They're the ones with matching scars."



4. Ruin The Friendship

My favourite part of music is always the lyrics. I listen to the lyrics as if it's a story. Taylor Swift has always emphasized how she loves storytelling. Her chosen medium is songs and in many such songs, you will find a well-defined story lying within to enthrall you and entertain you at the same time. This particular song from The Life of a Showgirl does exactly that. It felt like I was reading a novel and the ending made my jaw drop. I am completely mesmerized by how TS takes sad situations and turns them into a positive one, and in some songs like this one, she ends up with a twist that you'll not expect (thanks to the tune of the song).
Favourite lines:
"It was not an invitation
But I flew home anyway
With so much left to say
It was not convenient, no
But I whispered at the grave
'Should've kissed you anyway'."



5. The Life of a Showgirl

What I loved about this album is that it did not match my expectations. With a title like The Life of a Showgirl and all her promo snippets, the entire vibe of the album as presented by her, I was expecting a grand album. But I forgot that she mentioned this is mostly about what goes on behind the stage in the life of a showgirl. So, except one track, I was pleasantly surprised by every track by her. The final song of the album is all about how it's not as glamorous as it seems, but doing it anyway for the love of it. She does say in an interview that it happened to her. Someone once adviced her against it but she did it anyway. Being a writer, I could relate to it a hundred percent. People have been warning me, advising me against being a writer ever since I fell in love with all of it. And once again, I get comfort in knowing that someone was in the same position and she did what she wanted to do despite all the hurdles.
Favourite lines:
"Thank you for the lovely bouquet
I'm married to the hustle
And now I know the life of a showgirl, babe
Pain hidden by the lipstick and lace
Sequins are forever
And now I know the life of a showgirl, babe
Wouldn't have it any other way,"



Those are my top five favourite songs from The Life of a Showgirl. I obviously like a few other songs as well. There are some that did not speak to me at all and that's okay. We do have a huge cornucopia of songs to play. While I go play 'Eldest Daughter' and 'Opalite' on loop, and rewatch the music video of The Fate of Ophelia, you tell me which songs did you love from this album?

Saturday, 23 August 2025

13 Taylor Swift Songs That Are NOT About Break-Ups

August 23, 2025 0 Comments


Taylor Swift’s NEW album is here, you folks!


THE LIFE OF A SHOWGIRL!


I mean, if you haven’t watched the 2-hour podcast episode yet, please find some time and watch it. The world embraced the sparkly orange, and only TS had the guts to do it when people in her country are already suffering under an orange power.

By the way, you probably know that Taylor Swift is often “accused” of writing songs about breakups. Yes, it feels like accusations the way the media portrays her music. The intent is always to demean her work because she mostly writes about love and breakups. Despite love being one of the most talked-about emotions, despite every other musician singing or writing about the same thing, it suddenly becomes unacceptable or too frivolous when it’s Taylor Swift?


Make that make sense, folks!


But hey, did you know TS wrote about other things as well?


If not, keep scrolling. We’re here to talk about thirteen (yes, 13) songs by Taylor Swift that are NOT about falling in love or breakups.


1.     1. Marjorie (Album: evermore)
Marjorie is the name of Taylor’s grandmother. She lost her when she was really young. She lost her when she was not in the same town. In an interview clip, Taylor mentions that she regrets not being around her when it happened. She regrets not knowing her and all of those emotions are poured into this song. It’s a deeply emotional song about her grandmother and how she still feels her and how she would’ve loved to spend more time with her and get to know her. Somehow, she even managed to find her grandmother’s opera vocals and put them in this song and that segment never fails to give me goosebumps.


My favourite lines: “Never be so kind that you forget to be clever, 
never be so clever that you forget to be kind.”


2.      2. this is me trying (Album: folklore)
In her Long Pond Studio Sessions, Taylor Swift talks to Jack Antonoff (they write songs together) about this song. They talk about how people with addiction and mental health illnesses are always in an active fight in their daily lives. The song depicts how the act of trying is almost a battle. Moreover, the song also talks about how someone who feels like they’ve lost it in life despite having so much potential in school years or earlier years. This song breaks my heart and is one of my most favourite songs of all time by TS.


My favourite lines:
They told me all of my cages were mental
So I got wasted like all my potential
And my words shoot to kill when I'm mad
I have a lot of regrets about that…”


3.      3. I Hate it Here (Album: The Tortured Poets Department)
If you have ever felt that you don’t really belong to this world and that you almost always want to escape into daydreams or in a world of imagination (like binge-reading or watching something), this song is the one for you. TS writes about being trapped in a body or a world where they cannot be what they really are and thus, need to escape to a different world. This is a song that will appeal to the introverts and hypersensitive people who are probably the more adversely affected lot due to the harshness of this world.


My favourite lines: 
I'm lonely but I'm good
I'm bitter but I swear I'm fine
I'll save all my romanticism for my inner life
and I'll get lost on purpose
This place made me feel worthless...”


4.      4. Mean (Album: Speak Now)
One thing that Taylor Swift does best is turn her experiences into these superb songs that you can even dance to. In a few interview, she explains that she wrote this song ‘Mean’ about the critics who wrote about her albums by not giving any constructive criticism but just being mean. She was thinking about this powerless feeling of being at the receiving end of such mean comments from people no matter how hard she works. And then the song also gives an upbeat melody and lyrics that can fill you with hope about how all these mean comments will not affect her one day when she’s made it big.


My favourite lines: “S
omeday... I'll be living in a big old city
and all you're ever gonna be is mean
Someday I'll be big enough so you can't hit me
and all you're ever gonna be is mean.”


5.      5. 22 (Album: Red)
This song is so full of young energy. Although the title of the song very specifically is about the age “22”, what I feel from watching the music video is that TS wrote and sang how it feels to be in her early to mid-twenties, having a lot of fun and just enjoying life when you start to enter this new phase of life when you’re free from studies and have started earning. For some of us, this might even be the late twenties. Also, she’s surrounded by her female friends in this music video and even the lyrics is about how they’re taking a break from everything and just feeling young. In an interview, she mentions that she wanted to write how she was feeling while spending her summer with her friends.


My favourite lines: “We're happy, free, confused and lonely at the same time,
It's miserable and magical.”


6.      6. You Need to Calm Down (Album: Lover)
Here’s something for all the haters. Taylor Swift gets a lot of negative attention on the internet despite having a huge following of Swifties who are hardcore protectors of her. Although, TS have stayed away from engaging with politics or mixing it with her music for a long time… this is probably one of the times we see her touching upon issues she feels strongly about. Apart from being a response to internet trolls and haters, this song hints at her support for the queer community and she also talks about how female celebrities keep getting compared to each other despite each of them having a massive superpower themselves.


My favourite lines:
And we see you over there on the internet
Comparing all the girls who are killing it
But we figured you out
We all know now, we all got crowns
You need to calm down…”


7.      7. Only the Young (from the documentary Miss Americana)
This song, played in the credits of the documentary Miss Americana, is like an anthem. In this documentary, and various other interviews succeeding it, TS expressed how young people get affected the most with all the terrible issues in their country like gun violence, stalking, healthcare, climate change, etc. So, this song was pretty much Taylor openly expressing her political beliefs and also revealing her support against the then President of US, Donald Trump.
My favourite lines:
They aren’t gonna help us
Too busy helping themselves
They aren’t gonna change this
We gotta do it ourselves...”


8.      8. The Man (Album: Lover)
It’s not a new thing that Taylor often gets a lot of headlines for reasons her male contemporaries are left out of the discussions. Drawing from her personal experience as a businesswoman and from the collective experience of being a woman, she wrote this song to represent how the society views men and women in a vastly different lens. Another political number, Taylor Swift smashes the patriarchy with her lyrics in this song and hey, don’t miss this music video (and of course, the BTS of making this video) on her YouTube channel.


My favourite lines:
I'm so sick of running as fast as I can
Wondering if I'd get there quicker if I was a man.”


9.      9. mad woman (Album: folklore)
Now that we’ve talked about how women and men are treated differently just because of the gender, let’s talk about this freakishly beautiful song that is all about how women have been labelled as “mad” left, right, and centre for ridiculous reasons. One of my most favourite songs, this carries the rage of all the women who have been called either angry or insane. Just go and tell me, if it doesn’t chill your bones.


My favourite lines:
And there's nothin' like a mad woman
What a shame she went mad
No one likes a mad woman
You made her like that
And you'll poke that bear 'til her claws come out
And you find something to wrap your noose around
And there's nothin' like a mad woman…”


10. Long Live (Album: Speak Now)
This fantastic song is from one of her earlier albums and the whole meaning of it has evolved ever since she first started performing it. As per Taylor, this song is dedicated to her band and the fans who have been there with her for years, standing by her side, as they scaled the wobbly heights of the music industry. Full of gratitude, this song is one of the best live performances that addresses directly to all the struggles of an artist but at the same time, being grateful for everything she has achieved. While she performs this song during the Eras Tour, it sort of also hinted at how she keeps manifesting the stardom she’s so in fond of.


My favourite lines: Will you take a moment?
Promise me this
That you'll stand by me forever
But if, God forbid, fate should step in
And force us into a goodbye
If you have children someday
When they point to the pictures
Please tell them my name
Tell them how the crowds went wild
Tell them how I hope they shine...”


11. Anti-Hero (Album: Midnights)
Ever had a bout of self-loathing? Well, this song is going to become your shadow then. Taylor explains in an Instagram post how we all have things we hate about ourselves. And this one particularly caters to that extremely unsettling and yet comfortable feeling most of us might have experienced.
My favourite lines:
It's me, hi, I'm the problem, it's me
At tea time, everybody agrees
I'll stare directly at the sun but never in the mirror
It must be exhausting always rooting for the anti-hero.”


12. I Did Something Bad (Album: reputation)
The entire album of reputation has a huge lore behind it. In short, Taylor Swift received a lot of hate from the media in the years before this album for a lot of reasons. She disappeared from everywhere for a year. Came back with this banger of an album where each and every song is fueled by rage, frustration, and it shows how Taylor embraces whatever is thrown at her and turns it into the best possible songs. I Did Something Bad, if lyrics are decoded, refers to events in her life that aren’t so pleasant and where she’s painted as a villain for standing up for herself. Moreover, it is also speculated that quite a few songs on this album have references to the popular show on HBO, “A Game of Thrones”. This song is apparently about the Stark sisters, Sansa and Arya, plotting the death of Littlefinger. Oops, sorry about the spoiler if you haven’t watched the show yet.


My favourite lines: “This is how the world works
You gotta leave before you get left…”


13. Mastermind (Album: Midnights)
You know what’s the best thing about Taylor Swift? If you listen to a song enough number of times and really listen to the lyrics and know the entire lore, you’ll probably end up finding references to love and breakups in most of her songs. And yet, the song might be about something completely different. Like, this one – Mastermind. It might seem like she’s talking about a guy but this song is more about how she’s demeaned on the internet for being a strategist… a calculative planner who loves doing all of it so much. In an interview, she also ends up saying that she was inspired for this song by a movie she was watching. I don’t remember which movie she was referring to. But even if you look at how she planned her Eras Tour and all of her Easter Eggs for her fans, she lives up to this image of being a Mastermind and how!


My favourite lines: No one wanted to play with me as a little kid
So I've been scheming like a criminal ever since
To make them love me and make it seem effortless
This is the first time I've felt the need to confess…”


So, there you go! And be assured that there are more songs by Taylor which are not about love or breakups. But hey, this list had to have 13. *wink wink*


Tell me now, which is your favourite Taylor Swift song that has nothing to do with a love story or a break-up?