I am a Man - #MyFriendAlexa
Now the point is, we all talk about female stereotypes, we all fight it in our own way (I hope we all do). But face it, female stereotypes are the real issue, but we also need to address the other elephant in the room, the male stereotypes. They are so interconnected that we can’t move forwards without addressing both issues.
According to various analysts and researchers, male characters fall within a range of stereotypes.
The most popular stereotypes of male characters are:
The Joker: The funny who no one takes seriously, he is there just for the comic relief, most importantly, no girl wants to date him.
The Jock: He is athletic, muscular, date the sexiest girl, is usually dumb, and sucks at studies.
The Strong Silent Type: He exudes strength by taking action without expressing or worrying about their emotions. He loves to deny his emotions and feelings. Denial is his poison.
The Big Shot: These are the people who think they are mighty or they are acting like they are better than everybody else when in reality they are not.
The Action Hero: This is the one with a savior complex. It’s his job to save someone, especially a girl. We see them everywhere with their inflated muscles and egos.
The Buffoon: Commonly described as a bungling father figure. They are usually well-intentioned and light-hearted, however completely hopeless when it comes to parenting, dealing with domestic or career issues.
However, when we dig dipper, one common theme in all the stereotypes are “be a man, suck it up,”
Let us see what are the most common male stereotypes:
Vulnerability: The biggest stereotyped male behaviour is showing Vulnerability. Hey are suppose to be the MAN, can’t ask for help, can’t show fear, he will not express his love, in short, a robot with muscles.
And when they actually ask for help, they have penalized for the challenge of this notion.
Emotions (Sadness): The only emotion a man is allowed to show is his anger. In various cultures, men are socialized to be stoic.
And when they show any other emotion other than anger they are showed with amazing adjectives like being pussy.
Love for Sports: Men are supposed to love sports, especially the aggressive ones, like rugby, football, basketball.
Control their woman: A man have to be in control of his home, especially his wife. If one can’t control their wife, it’s a big shame.
Modesty: Men are expected to be proud of their achievements. Research shows that men who were more modest about their qualifications were evaluated as less likable.
Now, what we can do about it…
The simplest answer here is to teach our children to be more compassionate to everyone, celebrate men who dare to express their emotions, broaden gender stereotypical roles, most importantly do not gender police.
Let’s start this discussion with the wise words of Nelson Mandela,
“We slaughter one another in our words and attitudes. We slaughter one another in the stereotypes and mistrust that linger in our heads, and the words of hate we spew from our lips.”
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