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Sunday, 22 February 2026

Eloise Bridgerton is not a man-hater. Here's why.

February 22, 2026

Eloise Bridgerton is not the most perfect Bridgerton. No one is.


She’s been my most favourite, though. And it made me wanna pick up my sword when the internet started calling her “man-hater”.



This moment from Bridgerton Season 4 (Part 1) went viral, where Eloise visibly cringes when a gentleman greets her with a kiss on her hand. I shared the video clip myself on Instagram stories because I thought this was hilarious.


People all over the internet watching Bridgerton snapped that micro moment from the series and started sharing relatable phrases attached to it, like “Eloise Bridgerton is my spirit animal.”


At that moment, when I was watching it, I asked myself, “How is she cringing so visibly? There are other men, other people all around her, and anyone can easily spot her facial expression (and talk about it).”


But there’s the difference between me and her. And that’s what makes me admire her even more.


I would’ve hidden my discomfort to avoid being the source of gossip, or rather to combat my inner demon of “What will people say?”


But Eloise? She doesn’t care what others say about her. And in that moment, she was being brave (probably unknowingly) by expressing how she truly feels rather than hiding it. Her reaction wasn’t specific to that gentleman who kissed her hand. It was basically the attitude she harbours towards socialising, especially in a society that is nothing but a marriage mart.


Since season 1, she has been expressing not only her disinterest but also how strongly she feels the system is rigged against women and what they want. And this micro moment captures it all.


So, when people started labelling her as a “man-hater”, it made me furious.


Eloise Bridgerton is not a man-hater. She hates the system that men created. The system that makes women believe that their only aim in life is to marry well and produce babies. She hates the system that gives freedom to men to pursue their dreams and desires but keeps women trapped in a gilded cage. She hates the system that makes women obsess over ribbon collections and correct posture.


Eloise scoffs at those interests and thinks they’re unimportant. But isn’t she just mirroring how everyone else treats her?


Eloise (and Penelope) loves to read. And even in that fictional universe, it is considered ridiculous. No one matches her where she is. And even when they do, they end up being delusional about the system she hates so much.


We all know that her turn (to fall in love) is coming.


But reducing one of the most complex characters to a simple tag of “man-hater” was the worst thing her fans could do.


It shows how shallow people's perception has been. It shows how people on the internet don't even think to bring forth well-thought-out observations, but they would rather use a catchy term to collect a bunch of useless tokens created by a system that keeps them trapped in a meaningless metaverse.

Friday, 20 February 2026

5 Reasons Why You Should Watch THE 'BURBS (2026) - (TV Review)

February 20, 2026
The 'Burbs (2026) is a sharp dark comedy tv series intertwined with mystery. The 8 episodes ends in a cliffhanger that leaves you wanting more! 

If you have watched The 'Burbs (1989) movie, you will know what you are signing up for but for the people who are unfamiliar, the story follows a fictional suburb called the Hinkley Hills and the secrets, paranoia and intrigue of the people living there. The show pulls us into the manicured lawns and perfectly painted fences and slowly reveals the rot festering underneath. 

The thing about me is if I see Keke Palmer in the cast, I decide to watch the movie/show immediately. From Nope (2022) to Good Fortune (2025), she has been and continues to be a powerhouse of performance and whenever she is in a project, I know that it will be a good time. 

The 5 reasons why you should watch The 'Burbs (2026) are:

1. It is a re-vamp that is not just nostalgia bait. Instead, the writers have reimagined the original concept to reflect today's socio-political climate spanning across HOA politics, social media surveillance, performative perfection and more. 
The show tackles serious themes through dark comedy. Themes of isolation, distrust, identity, power dynamics will make you laugh while still making you feel the discomfort. It is clever without being preachy. 

2. The cast alone is enough to press play and when Keke Palmer is involved, expectations are high and she absolutely delivers! She plays the protagonist who is a new mom who has relocated to the suburbs. . She gets slowly obsessed with the mysterious house across from hers in her new neighbourhood. 

3. Mark Proksch is perfectly unsettling. If you have watched What We Do in the Shadows (the TV show), you already know that Mark Proksch thrives in roles that are slightly off, deeply awkward and hilariously uncomfortable. 
His cycle in the show and the pretzel and sardines scene are some of my favourites! A must watch!

4. The Mystery is actually worth it. Some shows promise mystery but stretch it thin but not this one. Each episode builds suspense. The tension simmers and you are left fully invested. 
The cliffhanger feels earned. 

5. The writing gives every major character dimension. No one feels like a caricature even when they behave ridiculously. Their motivations make sense and their flaws feel human and their paranoia, like the 1989 movie, becomes contagious. 
For me, it is the emotional investment that separates a good dark comedy from a great one. 

The 'Burbs successfully honours the spirit of the 1989 original while carving its own identity with an ensemble cast with standout performances and mysteries that respect your intelligence. 
If you have a free afternoon or a Sunday where you do not know what to do - 
Watch The 'Burbs (2026) and if you want to know where this idea stemmed from, watch The 'Burbs (1989) - movie featuring Tom Hanks. Both of these are brilliant!

Thursday, 19 February 2026

The Pre-Comeback Reading List #ThirstyThursday

February 19, 2026

There are two kinds of comeback preparations. The normal kind is where fans clear their schedule, charge the lightsticks, rehearse lyrics and prepare their vocal chords anticipating all the screaming that’s to come.

And, then there’s the Bangtan kind:
In this case, ARMYs end up accidentally reading advanced psychology at 1:30 AM on a week day, because they managed to catch the title of a book that Yoongi was reading in ‘In the soop’; and now their brain won’t shut up till they finish reading all the reference material they can find on the topic after finishing the book itself!!!

At this point, Boraland is less about “waiting for music” and more like unwittingly getting a literature degree taught by seven asian men with colour coded microphones. If the recent hints, installations, and that suspiciously philosophical ‘What is your love song?’ prompt are anything to go by, we are probably not getting a simple romance era. Nothing is ever that simple in Boraland. We are getting a thinking about love era. Which means the only logical to prepare for the upcoming album drop is… reading.

I am comparatively new to the fandom & as such I haven’t caught up with ALL the BTS content that is out there. But, the lovely lady at Asian Entertainment & Culture has made this informative video on Youtube with the 3 books that she thinks may have their influence on ARIRANG.




But here are some of the books that I know for sure has influenced their music in the previous eras. So, if you did not know or have not read these books yet, let get ‘Namjooning’ folks!


1) Jung’s Map of the Soul by Murray Stein

I have to list this book first because that is how I realised that BTS draws inspiration from literature. They named and framed a whole album by drawing from Carl Jung via Murray Stein’s Jung’s Map of the Soul. They have worked in Carl Jung’s theories on human personalities and introduces the audience to the persona, shadow, and ego. Mixed with their personal experiences, the album is basically psychology 101 through music.
Brush up your psychology and enjoy the music in depth by reading ‘Jung’s Map of the Soul’ 

2) Into the Magic Shop by Dr. James R. Doty

You have seen this book doing the rounds everywhere. Whether its booktok or bookstagram or the internet in general, people have been hyped this book everywhere. The book talks about mindfulness, compassion, brain-heart connection, and personal transformation. BTS took the basic concept of the book and produced ‘Magic Shop’ - a place for respite and recharging when you are having tough time in your life.
Learn how to live a better life while understanding what Jungkook means when he says ‘So show me’ by reading ‘Into the Magic Shop’ 

3) Demian by Hermann Hesse

I picked up this book because I got curious about it after watching ‘Blood, Sweat & Tears’ music video. The music video is heavily inspired by the book. Besides that, BTS in their WINGS era talks about the basic themes covered in the book. Temptation, guilt, desire, and self-recognition all appear as necessary steps toward maturity. Youth becomes the stage where identity fractures and reforms.

4) The Ones Who Walk Away from Omelas by Ursula K. Le Guin

I’ll be honest here, I did not catch the ‘Omelas’ reference when I watched ‘Spring Day’ music video. I only realised the connection when I happened to read the story at work. Le Guin’s short story presents a perfect society sustained by one child’s suffering. Happiness exists in that world only because people agree not to confront its cost. The video highlights the Sewol Ferry tragedy from 2014 - cost humanity paid that day.
You can read the short story here: https://shsdavisapes.pbworks.com/f/Omelas.pdf



5) Pied Piper of Hamelin

I think it is safe to say that we all know this German folklore. BTS uses the story of Pied Piper to, for the lack of a better word, ROAST their fans. RM shows up rapping at us to go study hard, but Yoongi claims he is just testing us and J-hope gives up any pretence and declares ‘I am your guilty pleasure’. The vocal line only adds to the allure with their voices. And yes, we are following the BTS tune all the way…

6) Almond by Sohn Won-Pyung

Both Yoongi and RM were seen reading this book during ‘In the Soop’ season 1 and I have no doubt in my mind that if not the source, this book at least worked as reference material for Yoongi to write ‘Amygdala’ - a song that can either trigger or heal you, depending on where you are in your healing journey. Almond is a YA book that explores the life of a protagonist who has an underdeveloped amygdala—the brain's emotional center. It is a must read! Get it HERE.


7) The Owl Service by Alan Garner


In the book, characters are stuck in a never-ending cycle. Sounds familiar with respect to BTS? Yes, their ‘Bangtain Universe’. You’ll find hidden references and familiar themes from the book in ‘You Never Walk Alone’ album. Get your copy HERE.

8 & 9) Kafka on the Shore & 1Q84 by Haruki Murakami

The song ‘Butterfly’ left me in tears. You can only truly feel the song if you have ever experienced a certain situation in your life. The lyrics and Jimin’s voice makes it unforgettable for me. However, I only found out later that the lyrics were inspired by this book. 

Have you heard their hidden track “Sea”? The lyrics have a direct quote from the book that says - “Wherever there’s hope, there’s a trial.”

I am yet to read these myself (maybe I should get to it before the comeback) and so I was hesitating to put them on this list. But, Murakami is a must read for all bibliophiles anyway. So, go pick up your copy of Kafka on the Shore or 1Q84 

So, now go pick up atleast ONE of these books...
(So that Namjoon doesn't have to shave your eyebrows off) 

Ofcourse you can act like a normal fan and wait for teasers and photo drops till 20th March. Then watch the Netflix livestream on 21st March.

OR you can do what this group has trained us to do: read books, theorise and bring a notebook to the album drop because it is BTS… it is always a reading assignment of sorts.




This post was originally written for DD's Reviews Book Blog